Spanking sex

Spanking is an addiction. You'll want to keep coming back for more the moment you experience the adrenaline-inducing sensation of leather on skin and your partner's moans reverberating through your ears. While it may seem a little startling at first, there are plenty of misconceptions about this form of pleasure that can be cleared up with some understanding.

Many people mistakenly believe spanking leads to violence when done incorrectly but with consent it is one way to create healthy boundaries in partnered sex without ever having to restrain someone or hurting them physically. Spanking gives lovers opportunities to express their dark side in a safe manner that creates sexual tension and allows partners who typically feel like they're "in charge" when initiating kinkier play into new roles where.
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Spanking contacts

Spanking is great when done correctly. It'll release dopamine, which makes your partner happier and more attracted to you. You won't want to stop!

Ease into your next adventure by ordering these contacts, sure to have both you and your lover begging for more! They're the perfect way to spice up some foreplay with a pinch of pain that won't leave a mark. With every spanking your partner will notice how much fun they are having--and trust us when we say they'll be craving more.

Spanking contacts

Spanking appeals to everyone as a form of punishment or role-playing. While spanking primarily involves bum slapping, it is meant to be pleasure-based meant to create a release sensation. Despite its reputation as an act of pain and punishment, it can be incredibly erotic and powerful when done on the sex parties' consensus when done correctly. It releases dopamine, which makes sexual partners happier and more attracted to their partners.

Erotic spanking involves using a hand or tools to strike the body's fleshy parts like the butt, breasts, or thighs. Other lovers prefer smacking the bottom of the feet or even the genitals. Partners require skill on safe spanking and scene construction, safe places to spank, and how to use devices like a paddle if present.

What Tools are used for spanking?

Tools vary from the sensations they give to the partner being spanked. Each device has a degree of safety. Here are some of the tools used for spanking.

Hand

The hand is the safest and most effective tool for beginners as it provides a mild sensation. A cupped hand spread fingers, or the fist has its feel. A fist will have a forceful impact on the recipient than spread fingers.

A hairbrush

A flat hairbrush is excellent for a sensational experience for the recipient. The bristles of the brush cause a different sensation when dragged slowly on the skin. It provides a more intense splendor than the hand so remember to take things slow.

Paddles

Paddles vary in fabrics and weight; the lighter the paddle, the better for beginners. Leather paddles are more common as they are soft and provide a gentle but firm sensation.

Know your partner

Spanking, as a form of intimacy, varies for different people. Have a clear definition of what turns you on about spanking. Before getting into it, communication between the parties involved should be crucial. The communication covers the goal of the spanking, any limitations, and safe words. A specific safeguard allows the partner to be spanked to let the spanker stop so that the process is consensual. If the partner has mouth gags or BDSM tools that limit speech, choose a non-vocal safe word like signals or even a bell. Once you have mastered the safe word, you can get started.

Spanking positions

When getting into spanking, the position of the person being spanked matters as they should be comfortable enough for the expected pleasure, some of the common ways to give a spanking include ;

Over the knee

This position entails the person being spanked bent over the knees of a spanker. It evenly distributes the recipient's weight over the spanker's knees, so Partners should obtain the right balance and comfort to achieve pleasure for both partners.

On the bed

Spanking on a comfortable bed provides a safe and supportive base for the person being spanked. Being on all fours or lying flat across the bed provides room for bondage.

Over furniture

You can spank your partner over a dining room table, a chair, or the kitchen counter. Ensure to avoid pointy corners and sharp edges of the furniture to prevent injury to the recipient.

Before you start spanking, make sure the spanker is turned on. Caressing, squeezing, and massaging is an excellent way to turn on your partner before going in. this warms up your partner and allows you to understand how your partner feels about it. The spanker should be familiar with the four butt zones best for spanking: The upper part, the undersides, the sides by the hips, and the middle, chunky area.

When hitting your partner's butt, remember to hit the fleshy part with an upward motion. Spanking from the bottom sends vibrations to the genitalia, which increases the stimulation. Please keep your fingers together as keeping them together causes more pain. The spanker can alternate spanking with rubbing, caressing, fondling the genitalia, or tugging your partner's hair. Rubbing the area that has been spanked also helps partners monitor bruising. If the partner is getting sore, the spanker can move to other fleshy parts.

Aftercare

Spanking can be intense physically and emotionally. This is why, after the experience, it is essential to check in with your partner due to the influx of endorphins. Provide reassurance and cuddles as a way of warming down and ask if they had a good time.

The spanked partner might be exhausted or physically affected. Taking a hot shower or putting ice on the affected area might help ease the pain. Aftercare varies between partners, be sure what your spanking partner is comfortable with.

Finding a spanking partner

Ask your partner if they are interested in spanking or how they feel about it. Spanking can be a lot of fun when done right. If you need to find a spanking partner, you can discover spankingcontacts here. You can get profiles of spanking contacts who are ready to have some fun. When connecting with BDSM - curious partner, send a checklist to your spanking contact on encounters and techniques they are comfortable with. Consent is vital, so if you find a spanking partner, allow them to demonstrate which boundaries they are okay with.

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